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Allume Moments (2014)

October 30, 2014 by HappyGoStuckey 25 Comments

Allume. It’s a cross between a weekend retreat for your soul, blogging summer camp, and a crazy fun dinner party with 400 of your closest friends— all rolled into one. If there were an Allume Fan Club I would vote myself it’s #1 cheerleader. I simply LOVE Allume. Last year, my expectations were completely blown away and I came straight home at the end of October and immediately marked off 2014 on my calendar.

Last year was amazing, but this year I came with stuff. I was over the moon excited but more than anything I was expectant. I needed clarity. The direction I was asking God for– I needed my next steps illumined, or even just to be told that my next small step of obedience was to remain exactly where I was. I was in need of hearing from Him in the moments away from the everyday.

And somewhere between hugging familiar necks at registration and that very first keynote, the clarity began. It continued through every single message, breakout session and quiet moment alone– I was, and continue to be– overwhelmed.

Yes, this is the most beautiful conference I’ve ever been to. And it has spoiled and ruined me for all other conferences. But the biggest, most delightful part– is the evidence of God Himself in every detail. This year I loved being with “my writing people” but more than anything I LOVED being ministered to by my God who heard my questions, and lovingly, patiently guided me a few more steps in His direction for me.

The biggest, most wildly wonderful thing about Allume is that it is covered in heaps of prayer, and that prayer shows. Sure, we were loved on, welcomed and spoiled– but we were ushered to the foot of the cross to meet with God and remember just WHY we do all this writing anyway. And now I am completely humbled and full to bursting and ready to get back to it. Thank you, Allume team. You blessed us in such big ways.

Now– for a few photos and my favorite moments–

IMG_1868Every element of Allume pointed to Hospitality. Not a Pinterest-perfect view of Entertaining; but real, honest swing open your doors wide hospitality.

IMG_1834Ruth Simons of GraceLaced designed the artwork for the programs & name badges. She also created that print on the right especially for Allume! It, and all her other gorgeous prints are available here in her shop. (The photo does not do it justice!)

IMG_1870Hearing Shauna Niequist speak on True Hospitality was a definite highlight of Allume. Her most recent book, Bread and Wine has brought me so much direction and joy in the area of Life and the Table.

IMG_1836Another highlight– finally being able to meet this beauty, Kristen Steele! And yes, if you’re wondering, her hair looked that good the entire weekend. 🙂  I met Kristen through the B&H Publishing Blogger Program and meeting her gave me the added gift of finding her sweet sister Caroline who lives right here in Georgia with me!

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Books, Books and more books! Between the sponsors, our swag bag and some great conference deals, I am SET for reading material for well, all of 2015.

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Tea and Cookies with Sophie Hudson was memorable for sure. She encouraged us in her honest and sweet way and I wrote in big letters across my notes one of the last things she said to us. “Trust God with your Dream, with your Ministry. Trust Him and Go get after it!”  

And last but certainly not least, being able to spend some quality time with my good friend and Allume roomie, Jacqueline. She is a GIFT and a hilarious riot all rolled into one. So glad you allowed me to talk you into Allume, Jacqueline! It would not have been the same without you.

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Well, those aren’t all my favorite moments– but I don’t have any more photos. At one point early on in the weekend, my husband texted me to ask if my instagram was down because I wasn’t doing my usual over-gramming of every little detail! I only took 8 or 9 photos the entire weekend, but I soaked it all in and sometimes that is so very necessary.

One more thing, a quote from Logan Wolfram on Radical Hospitality–

“As Bloggers, we are often a people of windows– but as Believers, we are called to be a people of doors– a people of living invitation.”

Yes! May our homes and our blogs be open, welcoming places where those visiting are loved deeply!

Linking up with other attendees over here, feel free to hop over and read! 

Living Free. (#Write31Days)
What I learned in October.

Comments

  1. Jacqueline Heider says

    October 30, 2014 at 11:46 am

    I loved being with you too, Cynthia! AND … I’m glad you talked me into it. It was super-fun, informative, and inspiring! The food wasn’t bad either – especially that salad on Thursday night – you remember … mmmm!! You’re a blessing to my heart, sweet girl!

    Reply
    • Wendy says

      October 30, 2014 at 12:06 pm

      I had two salads Thursday night! What can I say, there was an empty seat at the table!

      Reply
      • happygostuckey says

        October 30, 2014 at 4:12 pm

        Ha, I know! We talked about that Thursday night salad all weekend long. It was the bacon– I’m sure that made it so fabulous!!! So happy to have met you and connected Friday night.

        Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      October 30, 2014 at 4:12 pm

      #JacqAttack

      Reply
  2. Jacqueline Heider says

    October 30, 2014 at 11:46 am

    I loved being with you too, Cynthia! AND … I’m glad you talked me into it. It was super-fun, informative, and inspiring! The food wasn’t bad either – especially that salad on Thursday night – you remember … mmmm!! You’re a blessing to my heart, sweet girl!

    Reply
    • Wendy says

      October 30, 2014 at 12:06 pm

      I had two salads Thursday night! What can I say, there was an empty seat at the table!

      Reply
      • happygostuckey says

        October 30, 2014 at 4:12 pm

        Ha, I know! We talked about that Thursday night salad all weekend long. It was the bacon– I’m sure that made it so fabulous!!! So happy to have met you and connected Friday night.

        Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      October 30, 2014 at 4:12 pm

      #JacqAttack

      Reply
  3. Wendy says

    October 30, 2014 at 12:05 pm

    I like you and your heart! “Clarity” – that’s a good word, Sister. Praying that your time at Allume propels you forward into a marvelous 12 months… until next year.

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  4. Wendy says

    October 30, 2014 at 12:05 pm

    I like you and your heart! “Clarity” – that’s a good word, Sister. Praying that your time at Allume propels you forward into a marvelous 12 months… until next year.

    Reply
  5. Kate Motaung says

    October 30, 2014 at 1:23 pm

    Thanks for sharing so I can live vicariously through you! 😉 So glad it was a special weekend, and I’m sure the effects of it will be long-lasting.

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 30, 2014 at 4:10 pm

      Hey Kate!
      It was really great– but I hope we get to meet in person at some point soon! I usually take weeks to get the recaps out there, this year I forced myself! Thank you for taking the time to read.

      Reply
  6. Kate Motaung says

    October 30, 2014 at 1:23 pm

    Thanks for sharing so I can live vicariously through you! 😉 So glad it was a special weekend, and I’m sure the effects of it will be long-lasting.

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 30, 2014 at 4:10 pm

      Hey Kate!
      It was really great– but I hope we get to meet in person at some point soon! I usually take weeks to get the recaps out there, this year I forced myself! Thank you for taking the time to read.

      Reply
  7. Misty B says

    October 30, 2014 at 2:24 pm

    I enjoyed meeting you at Five Minute Friday 🙂 I really enjoyed Allume this year! Shauna was my favorite key note speaker.

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  8. Misty B says

    October 30, 2014 at 2:24 pm

    I enjoyed meeting you at Five Minute Friday 🙂 I really enjoyed Allume this year! Shauna was my favorite key note speaker.

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 30, 2014 at 4:09 pm

      Hi Misty!
      Wasn’t Shauna fantastic? Thank you for stopping by today– it’s been so fun to connect with new friends since Allume!

      Reply
  9. seeingsunshine1y says

    November 1, 2014 at 12:39 pm

    I was like you! I didn’t take nearly as many photos as I suspected I would. I was too busy soaking it all in. I’m so glad God gave you clarity and you enjoyed the weekend. P.S. I love your blog design!

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      November 3, 2014 at 3:34 pm

      Thank you!! I HAVE enjoyed looking at everyone else’s photos to remember the beautiful details of the weekend. So happy to stopped by today!

      Reply
  10. seeingsunshine1y says

    November 1, 2014 at 12:39 pm

    I was like you! I didn’t take nearly as many photos as I suspected I would. I was too busy soaking it all in. I’m so glad God gave you clarity and you enjoyed the weekend. P.S. I love your blog design!

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      November 3, 2014 at 3:34 pm

      Thank you!! I HAVE enjoyed looking at everyone else’s photos to remember the beautiful details of the weekend. So happy to stopped by today!

      Reply

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    November 3, 2014 at 4:46 pm

    […] 4. I learned that I need to throw more candy. Really. Shauna Niequist spoke at Allume on the topic of True Hospitality and though I wrote down practically every little thing she said– because, well, Shauna Niequist– but I wrote these words in my journal in big fat letters, THROW MORE CANDY. She told this personal story about her own realization that she had become someone who was less warm, loving, and giving and more efficient, busy and productive. And wow. I have to be honest and say that it hit me right between the eyes. In an effort to manage all the areas of our family, home and life well– I have easily forgotten how to play. How to laugh on a daily basis. To just enjoy the moments, all of the moments. If you want to hear the entire beautiful keynote, and hear her explain the part about throwing candy– and trust me you do– Go here and listen.  Also, I wrote about my Allume highlights here.  […]

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    November 3, 2014 at 4:46 pm

    […] 4. I learned that I need to throw more candy. Really. Shauna Niequist spoke at Allume on the topic of True Hospitality and though I wrote down practically every little thing she said– because, well, Shauna Niequist– but I wrote these words in my journal in big fat letters, THROW MORE CANDY. She told this personal story about her own realization that she had become someone who was less warm, loving, and giving and more efficient, busy and productive. And wow. I have to be honest and say that it hit me right between the eyes. In an effort to manage all the areas of our family, home and life well– I have easily forgotten how to play. How to laugh on a daily basis. To just enjoy the moments, all of the moments. If you want to hear the entire beautiful keynote, and hear her explain the part about throwing candy– and trust me you do– Go here and listen.  Also, I wrote about my Allume highlights here.  […]

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