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Tethering Grace & Togetherness

I Wasn’t Prepared…

October 28, 2013 by HappyGoStuckey 16 Comments

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Last night I returned from one of the most amazing weekends of my entire life. I’m definitely still processing all I learned and I’m sure it will take days before I can put into words all that God taught me there.

After the events of the last few weeks, I was prepared for God to speak to my heart in a big way. The spiritual attacks on our family ranged from mildly frustrating to nearly debilitating. There was the sickness with head colds that rounded our family and then the revolting stomach bug that landed our littlest in the hospital over night (out of town!)  and then temporarily leveled the rest of us just days before I was to leave for Allume. Not to mention the near final-blow of becoming a “no-income” family just four weeks ago. Throw in a couple appliances breaking down (again.) and I was 100% convinced that Satan was waging an all-out battle to get me to give up and stay home. Through it all, the message was quite clear that I should still go, so went I did. With the anticipation of learning the treasures He wanted to teach me. So I was prepared for something great. 

I was not, however, prepared for several other things.

I was not prepared for the lovely change in weather, rendering half my wardrobe useless. (YAY FOR FALL!!!)

I was not prepared to be loved on again and again by the organizers, sponsors and speakers of Allume. I had heard of the amazing SWAG– but oh. my. word! Here’s a photo of SOME of the books and lovely gifts we received. Blessed!

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Whoa! Thank YOU!

I was not prepared to start making real connections twenty minutes after I arrived. The first person I met was a member of Allume staff who is right now, in the midst of waiting on her 2 adopted daughters to come home from across the world. While working registration together, she shared a bit about how they had been waiting about twice as long as the normal timeframe. I immediately became connected with this mama in my heart, and have committed to pray that God would MOVE MOUNTAINS if needed, and get these sweet girls home by Christmas. Will you please take a minute and pray for them as well? Her name is Christin and you can read a bit of their story by clicking on the link above.

I was not prepared for the friendships! ( I know.) During the Newbie Meet-up Mingle, I seriously wanted to run, not walk, back to my hotel room and watch some HGTV out of denial that anything called a MINGLE was going on and I was supposed to be a part of it. But a few minutes in, I started talking to Amanda, (who frankly had the same blogger-in-the-headlights look) and we found out how small the world really is. So many writers, bloggers, women with stunning hearts and unique spheres of influence– and I was blessed to meet many of them!

I was not prepared for the QUALITY of the Allume Conference. I was completely unaware that this was only the 4th year running, and could not tell from the attention to detail, the beauty of the decor, and the caliber of each speaker! I was 100% blown away and am so thankful to have had a part.

I went to Allume as a “Mom who happens to have a blog.” But I left Allume as a Woman who is confident that God has given her a passion for writing for a reason. I went hoping to become a better writer, but I left as someone who is not concerned with being “good enough” but is focused on being “available.”  I am even more convinced of who He has made me and I’m utterly grateful to be able to worship Him in this way. I now understand why I feel most relaxed and content when I am writing. Writing is a very personal form of worship for me and my desire is that it would ALWAYS make great the name of God. My hope is that I will continue to live in what I believe is an aspect of His calling for me. 

I was NOT PREPARED to leave my fears, inadequacies, comparisons, and concerns in Greenville, South Carolina. But God is faithful and He reminded me that He is not the author of fear or confusion and that He has placed me right where I am for a time and a purpose!

I’m not here because I’m there…
A Fresh Lens

Comments

  1. bennettaj says

    October 28, 2013 at 8:57 pm

    Woo Hoo! That picture surprised me when I clicked over 🙂 I can’t believe you and Amanda had just met–you were like old friends! So glad God met you there this weekend.

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 29, 2013 at 11:20 am

      Haha! Amy, I thought I should have warned you… 🙂 The only other one I brought home was the GIF… and well, that was just *special*

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  2. Christin says

    October 28, 2013 at 8:58 pm

    So happy to have met (and worked with) you! Your words in my journal are a beautiful blessing and I thank you so much for covering our adoption in prayer. I cannot tell you how much that means to me. Your prayers have helped restore peace to my heart. *Thank you*.

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  3. Amanda says

    October 28, 2013 at 10:51 pm

    So thankful for how our steps were orchestrated this weekend! Can’t wait to see how the words we heard impact us both going forward!

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  4. Kasey says

    October 28, 2013 at 11:09 pm

    First of all, I am sooooo glad you had such a great time! You deserved it! Second, I am so glad that you have found such a passion and ministry to serve the Lord! Third, I want to borrow Kisses From Katie when you are done! I’ve started reading it at Barnes and Noble when I’ve taken Kyle to play there and never bought it. 🙂 I love your blog and that it is such a reflection of you and your heart and the Lord!

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  5. Logan Wolfram (@lifefordessert) says

    October 29, 2013 at 12:32 am

    You will be pleased to know that as we were cleaning up, we found your left fears, inadequacies, comparisons, and concerns…it seemed like you intentionally left them, so we took the liberty of throwing them in the garbage with the rest of the trash for you. It’d just not be worth it to ever return ship anything so heavy and entirely unwelcome. Heaps of blessings on you! I love how the Lord used the weekend to speak this huge amount of life over you! Walk in it girl! We applaud you and join arms with you in your curiosity and availability to the exciting things of the Lord!

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  6. Vanderbilt Wife says

    October 31, 2013 at 8:55 pm

    I am SO glad we got to sit next to each other at that first dinner. It was wonderful to swap stories of grace, and I am remembering you and your family in my prayers.

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  7. Katie E says

    November 1, 2013 at 11:37 pm

    Absolutely loved this post. I feel the same passion growing in my heart and feel so blessed to have read your words today – “I left Allume as a Woman who is confident that God has given her a passion for writing for a reason.” I hope to attend the next conference. Thank you for sharing your experience!

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  8. Katie Emanuel says

    November 1, 2013 at 11:41 pm

    I so enjoyed reading this post. I have felt the same passion for writing stirring in my heart and connected with your words, especially “I left Allume as a Woman who is confident that God has given her a passion for writing for a reason…Writing is a very personal form of worship for me and my desire is that it would ALWAYS make great the name of God.” Thank you for sharing your heart! I hope to attend the next conference 🙂

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    • happygostuckey says

      November 4, 2013 at 8:55 pm

      Katie, Thank you for your kind words. I would LOVE to meet you at the next Allume!!!

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  9. Meredith Bernard says

    July 30, 2014 at 4:38 pm

    Ok, now I’m doubly excited to attend Allume this year Cynthia! I’m so glad you shared this with me. Your experience sounds a lot like mine at She Speaks this year…so to think that I get to do that all over again with more amazing friends is beyond me. 😀 Yay for people that get us and a God that lets us worship Him in this way. I love how you put that. 😉 Can’t wait to meet you! xoxo, Meredith

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    • happygostuckey says

      July 30, 2014 at 4:49 pm

      Yes, Meredith! Now we just get to count down the days together!!!

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  10. leeanngtaylor says

    July 31, 2014 at 6:28 am

    Thank you to Meredith for sharing this on Twitter so the rest of us #Allumenewbies this year could also read. I’m so excited to see what God will do there. My introverted self has signed up to volunteer to get past the newbie-blogger-in-the-headlights feeling. 🙂

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