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Tethering Grace & Togetherness

On Fear and Cancer.

October 20, 2014 by HappyGoStuckey 15 Comments

Your voice wavered on the other end of the line as you paused to collect yourself and a softball of dread dropped into my stomach. Bad news. The lump rose in my own throat.

Cancer. You said. And I cried right then and there in that parking lot. I listened as you told me what your Doctor’s plans were. Swift course of action and then two weeks of waiting to see if they got it all.

It feels as though I’ve been carrying around a backpack of bricks since then– and I don’t know if your burden feels any lighter, knowing so many who love you are carrying it with you. But I hope so. 

And friend, dear friend who has meant so much to me these last few months. Who makes me both love and hate my spin bike three times a week as you encourage us all to just keep going– It’s our turn to be your coach.

It’s our turn to cheer you on. It’s our turn to tell YOU you can do this. It’s our turn to be there. And we will be. We will be there to remind you that HE HAS THIS. Because He most certainly does. He has this. He has you– right in His healing hands.

You’re the one whose name is on that medical chart, but we are all a little bit scared.

When the outcome is uncertain, the future is a little scary.

So here is what we do know:

Cancer stinks. The FEAR is big and it’s real and it can choke the truth out of what we know sometimes. We cannot let that happen. We need that truth  to guide us through these next few days. So if you forget, let us remind you.

Because even when our fear is awfully big, OUR GOD IS BIGGER.

And not for one moment on that operating table or any moment after will ever HE leave your side. 

We are praying for the Doctors, we are praying that they are swift and merciless with that awful stuff that threatens your health. But we know that at the end of the day, “Our help is in the name of the Lord, who made heaven and earth.” Psalm 124:8

So go bravely tomorrow. And today and every day after, we will remember–

“When I am afraid, I put my trust in You. In God whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can flesh do to me?” Psalm 56:3,4

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Comments

  1. Becky Keife says

    October 20, 2014 at 12:17 pm

    I’m so sorry for your friend’s diagnosis. But the truth you claim is the truth to cling to, in times like this, and always. Hugs and prayers.

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 20, 2014 at 3:17 pm

      Thank you Becky. Thank you for taking the time to stop by and remind me of that. Grateful for you.

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  2. Becky Keife says

    October 20, 2014 at 12:17 pm

    I’m so sorry for your friend’s diagnosis. But the truth you claim is the truth to cling to, in times like this, and always. Hugs and prayers.

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 20, 2014 at 3:17 pm

      Thank you Becky. Thank you for taking the time to stop by and remind me of that. Grateful for you.

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  3. Kate Motaung says

    October 20, 2014 at 12:44 pm

    Such powerful encouragement here. Thank you for these words. May your friend be strengthened and upheld by the truth of this post. Here’s one I wrote a while ago, which I pray is an encouragement to you as you walk this journey and battle fear right alongside your friend.

    When Cancer Comes: http://www.ibelieve.com/faith/when-cancer-comes.html

    Strength to each of you.

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 20, 2014 at 3:15 pm

      Thank you sweet Kate. <3

      Reply
  4. Anastasia Rose says

    October 20, 2014 at 3:21 pm

    That was beautifully said…

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 20, 2014 at 3:29 pm

      Thank you. Thank you for stopping by. It was a hard thing to write– but even harder for the one living it, I know.

      Reply
  5. Anastasia Rose says

    October 20, 2014 at 3:21 pm

    That was beautifully said…

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    • happygostuckey says

      October 20, 2014 at 3:29 pm

      Thank you. Thank you for stopping by. It was a hard thing to write– but even harder for the one living it, I know.

      Reply
  6. jo says

    November 4, 2014 at 10:31 pm

    A beautiful post for a friend! I will pray for her!

    Reply
  7. jo says

    November 4, 2014 at 10:31 pm

    A beautiful post for a friend! I will pray for her!

    Reply

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