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The Sabbath for Servants

November 20, 2014 by HappyGoStuckey 9 Comments

By 7:25am on Sunday I had already cleaned up two little messes, changed one diaper, fixed 2 sippy cups of milk, folded up the blankets, made the beds and was half way through breakfast prep.

And standing there in the kitchen I pondered the word, Sabbath and it immediately led me to Remember the Sabbath to Keep it Holy…

As the youngest of five children, I saw my mom rise before the sun– clad in her pink robe and bare feet, standing watch at a skillet of scrambled eggs and smiling over her coffee cup as we padded in the kitchen one by one. Sometimes, the happy dusting of flour all over the counter tops and a quick peek through the stove window confirmed the smell of homemade biscuits.

Sometimes it was a piece of nearly burnt cheese toast hastily served up while we all ran out the door, pulling on shoes and tucking in shirts and smoothing unruly hair– but either way, she was always at the helm of our ship— making provisions for us all as we made our way to church on Sunday morning. Once or twice I wondered… when was her Sunday? Who would make her breakfast so she could enjoy a break? When would her Sabbath come? But mostly, I just ate my own breakfast, filled my seat in the family grocery-getter and never questioned the way things were.

And many trips around the sun later, I’m the mom. Biscuit baker. Cup-Filler. Smile-bringer. Hair-smoother. And to be truthful, sometimes it feels like I also wear the label, Non-Sabbath taker.

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And as I struggle with the push and pull of being both provision-maker and desperate needer of a Sabbath myself– I know there are things we can do to cut back on all the doing– and make time for the resting. And sometimes we do them. Takeout Sunday lunch. Extra planning on Saturday. Frozen waffles. And just letting some things go until Monday.

But I also know that life just is. And Sundays are a day that little people still need the same help they need the other six.

Whether a mother or a Minister or an ICU nurse, not everyone can take a service-free Sunday. And I’m just not sure that is what Sabbath means after all.

The hands that serve others for God are hands that worship simultaneously. Perhaps we are the best multi-taskers when we first put our hands up toward Heaven to offer up our first bits of sacrifice.

I know that if asked, my mom would not say she missed out on those few extra hours of Sunday morning sleep. More likely, she would say that God gave them back to her twenty fold in watching her children grow to know Christ.

And some might say that the two are not related. But as one of those pajama clad kids who always woke up to such Sunday mornings, I would disagree.

Nothing is secular when done for the honor of the sacred. Nothing is ordinary when done with the hands and feet of Christ. And for all the moms (and dads!) standing in all the kitchens today, for all the grandparents who are doing it again for another generation, it matters. For the policeman standing guard instead of sitting with the paper, it makes a difference. For the leaders in our churches who get up and get at it so Sundays can happen, we need you. We need you all. 

So go hard after it for the Glory of God.

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Comments

  1. hopeful50 says

    November 20, 2014 at 11:23 am

    Beautifully written and heartfelt. Maybe our Sabbath rest comes when we finally go home!

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    • Tobi@SimplyJesus says

      November 20, 2014 at 4:06 pm

      Amen, Susan!

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  2. Jolene says

    November 20, 2014 at 1:59 pm

    What a beautiful post!

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  3. Jolene says

    November 20, 2014 at 1:59 pm

    What a beautiful post!

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  4. Tobi@SimplyJesus says

    November 20, 2014 at 4:05 pm

    I will start by saying that I am blessed abundantly and everything is for God’s glory, but…I am head of Children’s Ministry and one of those who are at church 2 hours before it starts and an hour after it ends.. (we set up and tear down everything every week because we rent a building on Sundays) sometimes I would give anything to walk into service when it starts and get up and leave at the end. Thank you for the acknowledgement and encouragement.

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  5. Tobi@SimplyJesus says

    November 20, 2014 at 4:05 pm

    I will start by saying that I am blessed abundantly and everything is for God’s glory, but…I am head of Children’s Ministry and one of those who are at church 2 hours before it starts and an hour after it ends.. (we set up and tear down everything every week because we rent a building on Sundays) sometimes I would give anything to walk into service when it starts and get up and leave at the end. Thank you for the acknowledgement and encouragement.

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  6. Sarah Parsons (@sarahparsons) says

    November 22, 2014 at 1:02 pm

    I love this. One of my friends who is a pastor’s wife said something interesting one time – she talked about how they took their Sabbath on Mondays (her husband’s day off). I hadn’t thought of it that way before, but really liked the conscious effort they took to honor having a day of Sabbath rest. That said, I still haven’t quite figured out what that looks like as a mom of littles. 🙂

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  7. Sarah Parsons (@sarahparsons) says

    November 22, 2014 at 1:02 pm

    I love this. One of my friends who is a pastor’s wife said something interesting one time – she talked about how they took their Sabbath on Mondays (her husband’s day off). I hadn’t thought of it that way before, but really liked the conscious effort they took to honor having a day of Sabbath rest. That said, I still haven’t quite figured out what that looks like as a mom of littles. 🙂

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