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Tethering Grace & Togetherness

What I learned in March

March 30, 2015 by HappyGoStuckey 20 Comments

March was something of a month of stripping away. When March began, I had high hopes and lofty goals. But, it took us a solid two weeks to not feel like we were perpetually jet-lagged due to the time change– (I know what are we, a bunch of newborn babies??!)

In March I didn’t write like I wanted to, read like I wanted to, get up early like I wanted to, or exercise like I wanted to. Life just happened and kept right on happening. But even in the absence of the rhythms we may hold dear, the days were still quite meaningful and often still very full of wonder.

In March I….

  • was given this piece of fancy footwear and the frustrating, “avoid the cardio for 6 weeks,” from a Doctor who cared very little that I would miss my 1 year anniversary of going from episodic-exercise-girl to can’t-wait-to-get-to-the-gym girl. She’s still in here somewhere, hanging out on the weight machines and counting down the days.
  • learned that I will always love Fairytales, especially Cinderella. We saw Cinderella about a week ago, and I LOVED every minute of it. Having only ever seen the animated version, there were so many elements of this story that came alive for me for the very first time. I appreciate Disney’s care with the story itself and how they told it in such an exquisite way. Go see it!!!!
  • I realized afresh that you absolutely, always need your parents. Something scary happened with one of our family members this week, (they are doing much better now!) and I immediately called my Mom & Dad. They listened as I gave them the emotional details and then I sat on my kitchen floor and listened to them. All at once I was seven years old again and looking for words of comfort. I’ll never outgrow that.

What I’m loving lately–

  • Amazonian Clay 12 Hour Blush in Fearless.  Okay. This blush is fantastic. Ever since Tiffany mentioned it, I have been wanting to give it a try– and it seriously does stay on that long! Many cosmetic products say 12 hr. or 18 hr. wear but what they mean is, “somewhere in the neighborhood of 30 minutes.” Not this one, it STAYS! And, you only need a tiny bit. And don’t let the “clay” part scare you, it goes on just like regular powder blush, but apparently it is solar-baked or something– I know, so FANCY, right?!!
  • StitchFix. Yes, I drank the Stitchfix kool-aid. IMG_3670I heard so many good things and it was time to test it out. Shopping is really only fun when you actually find what you’re looking for, right?

I am not super-picky, but I don’t enjoy spending all day looking for an item and striking out, especially if that whole time I’ve been trying to entertain kiddos and keep the little darlings from disappearing into multiple clothing racks.

So, I’m trying the online route. I have heard amazing reports from others who have used the Stitchfix service and this month I tried it for the first time! I’ll be honest, my first fix was slightly disappointing, but I did come away with the prettiest textured, grey cardigan and I cannot wait to wear it again!

What’s that? You want to see it? Hmmm… ok, here it is!

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I love how light and airy it is, perfect for all those warm days we are about to have. The quality far exceeded my expectations– even for a cardigan wearing girl like myself. (Sorry for the Squinty-Spring-Sunshine-Eyes)

Sadly, I sent everything else back because it wasn’t right for one reason or another. Okay, so “loving” may be a strong verb. But I have high hopes that this time next month, I’ll be loving it even more. I have heard the more feedback you give, the better your next fix will be. And I certainly did LOVE all the little touches Stitchfix provides. The cost is $20.00 per fix which applies as credit to whatever you buy and free shipping either way! Not to mention the sweet note from my stylist and the style suggestion cards they send. Such FUN.

IMG_3672 If you are at all interested in trying StitchFix, I recommend you give it a shot! You go online and fill out this extensive style profile that really helps them know “who” you are and what you like. Another thing I did was create a style Pinterest board, and then they get the link to it to assist them in knowing what I like. If you DO decide to try Stitchfix, will you consider using my referral code? Click HERE to hop over there! They give credit when we share the Stitchfix love with others. <3 Also, I definitely want to know if you have tried it in the past and what you thought!

Well that about wraps up my March! I’m linking up with Emily over at Chatting at the Sky and Leigh Kramer sharing what we learned and what we are in to! What about you? What did you learn this month?

Check out all my other “What I Learned” posts here.

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Comments

  1. Kendra says

    March 30, 2015 at 8:13 pm

    I am so with you on always needing your parents. Even if I go weeks without seeing them sometimes, I need to know they are just a call or text away. I tried Stitch Fix almost two years ago and really liked th experience as well as the clothes they sent me; unfortunately it’s too pricey for me to make it a regular thing (I just can’t bring myself to spend that much money on clothes).

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      April 1, 2015 at 5:56 pm

      Hi Kendra! So glad you stopped by from Emily’s. I know a day might come when my mom & dad are NOT just a call away so I’m grateful for every time I call and they answer. Every cheesy movie I watch with my dad and every cup of coffee I drink with my mom are all gifts!

      Reply
  2. Kendra says

    March 30, 2015 at 8:13 pm

    I am so with you on always needing your parents. Even if I go weeks without seeing them sometimes, I need to know they are just a call or text away. I tried Stitch Fix almost two years ago and really liked th experience as well as the clothes they sent me; unfortunately it’s too pricey for me to make it a regular thing (I just can’t bring myself to spend that much money on clothes).

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      April 1, 2015 at 5:56 pm

      Hi Kendra! So glad you stopped by from Emily’s. I know a day might come when my mom & dad are NOT just a call away so I’m grateful for every time I call and they answer. Every cheesy movie I watch with my dad and every cup of coffee I drink with my mom are all gifts!

      Reply
  3. Linda@Creekside says

    March 31, 2015 at 10:06 am

    So fun to drop in and say hi … hanging out at Emily’s and Leigh’s with you!

    ;-}

    Reply
  4. Linda@Creekside says

    March 31, 2015 at 10:06 am

    So fun to drop in and say hi … hanging out at Emily’s and Leigh’s with you!

    ;-}

    Reply
  5. Lyli @ 3dlessons4life.com says

    March 31, 2015 at 11:38 am

    I want to see that Cinderella movie. It’s on my hit list.

    So lovely to “meet you” through Emily’s linkup today!

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      April 1, 2015 at 5:54 pm

      Hi Lyli! Glad you dropped in! I hope you make it to Cinderella soon– I’m convinced the theatre is worth every penny for this one!

      Reply
  6. Lyli @ 3dlessons4life.com says

    March 31, 2015 at 11:38 am

    I want to see that Cinderella movie. It’s on my hit list.

    So lovely to “meet you” through Emily’s linkup today!

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      April 1, 2015 at 5:54 pm

      Hi Lyli! Glad you dropped in! I hope you make it to Cinderella soon– I’m convinced the theatre is worth every penny for this one!

      Reply
  7. Ashley Brooks (@BrooksEditorial) says

    March 31, 2015 at 12:35 pm

    It was my first month with StitchFix, too! I have an 8-month-old at home, so hitting the mall isn’t exactly convenient these days. I loved how easy it was, but my box was full of near-misses. A textured cardigan was my only keeper, too (though not the same one). I think I’ll give them a try every few months when I need specific pieces. I just can’t get on board with getting a box of clothes I *might* like and don’t actually need every month!

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    • happygostuckey says

      April 1, 2015 at 5:53 pm

      I agree Ashley, I’m far more interested in doing an occasional box as needed than a regular shipment. I enjoyed reading your March post too– and I think we must have the exact same closet contents: cozy sweaters and anything with stripes. Both are in abundance in my closet! Hope you find your 1920’s Historical Fiction, I would love to find one as well. Thanks for stopping by!

      Reply
  8. Ashley Brooks (@BrooksEditorial) says

    March 31, 2015 at 12:35 pm

    It was my first month with StitchFix, too! I have an 8-month-old at home, so hitting the mall isn’t exactly convenient these days. I loved how easy it was, but my box was full of near-misses. A textured cardigan was my only keeper, too (though not the same one). I think I’ll give them a try every few months when I need specific pieces. I just can’t get on board with getting a box of clothes I *might* like and don’t actually need every month!

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      April 1, 2015 at 5:53 pm

      I agree Ashley, I’m far more interested in doing an occasional box as needed than a regular shipment. I enjoyed reading your March post too– and I think we must have the exact same closet contents: cozy sweaters and anything with stripes. Both are in abundance in my closet! Hope you find your 1920’s Historical Fiction, I would love to find one as well. Thanks for stopping by!

      Reply
  9. happygostuckey says

    April 1, 2015 at 5:49 pm

    Thank you!!!
    I keep wearing it! HA!

    Reply
  10. happygostuckey says

    April 1, 2015 at 5:49 pm

    Thank you!!!
    I keep wearing it! HA!

    Reply
  11. Lee says

    April 11, 2015 at 8:40 am

    I so connected with what you said about not doing things or accomplishing things like you wanted, but still being able to recognize that they days are meaningful. I feel like that perfectly describes my last few months, in which my plans for growth and progress and improvement just haven’t turned out like I had hoped…and yet it has still been a beautiful last few months. All about perspective, right??

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      April 14, 2015 at 11:15 am

      Yes, totally, Lee! So . very. true. And thank you for stopping by!

      Reply
  12. Lee says

    April 11, 2015 at 8:40 am

    I so connected with what you said about not doing things or accomplishing things like you wanted, but still being able to recognize that they days are meaningful. I feel like that perfectly describes my last few months, in which my plans for growth and progress and improvement just haven’t turned out like I had hoped…and yet it has still been a beautiful last few months. All about perspective, right??

    Reply
    • happygostuckey says

      April 14, 2015 at 11:15 am

      Yes, totally, Lee! So . very. true. And thank you for stopping by!

      Reply

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