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Beef & Barley Soup (Slow-Cooker)

November 1, 2013 by HappyGoStuckey Leave a Comment

This Beef & Barley Soup was one I hesitated to try for quite a while. But let me say, since making it the first time in January, I have made it several times– It’s THAT good. It’s definitely a thicker soup, which is great if you’re trying to pass it off as a “meal” to your husband. We serve it with a piece of nice crusty bread and sometimes a salad. YUM! The only step you take in advance is to brown the onions with the tomato paste in a skillet and then deglaze the pan before everything goes in the slow-cooker– so easy!

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Slow Cooker Beef & Barley Soup

Beef & Barley Soup

(Slightly adapted from America’s Test Kitchen: Slow Cooker Revolution)

2 Tbs. vegetable oil

2 onions, sliced thin

1/4 cup tomato paste

1 tbs. chopped fresh thyme or 1/2 tsp. dried thyme

1/2 cup dry red wine

1 (28 ounce) can of crushed tomatoes

3 cups of beef broth

1 cup chicken broth (low-sodium)

3 carrots, peeled and chopped

1/2 lb. mushrooms, cleaned and chopped (optional)

1/3 cup soy sauce

1/4 cup pearl barley

1.5 lbs. boneless shoulder (or blade) steak

1 cup of frozen peas

Salt and pepper

1/4 cup minced fresh parsley

Heat oil in a skillet over medium heat. Add onions, tomato paste, and thyme and cook until onions are softened and lightly browned (about 8 minutes.) Stir in wine, scraping up any browned bits; transfer to slow cooker.

Stir tomatoes, beef and chicken broths, carrots, mushrooms, soy sauce and barley into slow cooker. Season beef with salt and pepper and nestle into the bottom of the slow cooker.

Cover and cook on low for 8-10 hours. Remove beef and shred, and then add back in to soup, along with frozen peas (with slow cooker still on low.) Let peas and meat heat thoroughly for about 10 minutes and then skim any fat off the top if necessary. Stir in parsley, salt and pepper to taste (if needed) and serve.

 

A Fresh Lens

October 30, 2013 by HappyGoStuckey Leave a Comment

Well, I finally did it. I picked up my camera again. In this family, we love our smartphones but we’ve only had them a short while– since Memorial Day to be exact, so we are still getting “used” to them.

(Some of you follow me on instagram and are currently making snide comments about the tens of thousands of photos I take and whathaveyou. You would be correct. )

I DO take a lot of photos with my phone. It has really allowed me to capture moments I would otherwise miss.

BUT.

It has made me photographically lazy. I confess I have only picked up my camera ONCE since the end of May. I got a few shots of Lucy’s first day of school. Other than that, I’ve just left it sad and lonely in the case while my phone had the priviledge of capturing all our life events. Poor Canon EOS.

But recently, I’ve been thinking. Noticing all the beautiful Fall colors outside our windows… Wondering how pretty they would look… admitting they probably wouldn’t need the benefit of a filter. So I picked it up and dusted it off (so to speak.)

I started slow, taking a few shots of our favorite (Low-fat!) Banana Bread

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Hello, Beautiful.

Then I ventured outside and happened upon a little playdate between my littlest Stuckey and her Daddy.

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slightly blurry… but I love her face.. and his.

 

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We’re all going to miss him when he goes back to work… probably none of us as much as she will.

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So high!!!

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I mean, really. Why don’t I do this more often??

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I love her. Even the little bruise on her head is cute.

 

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That’s it. I’m picking up my REAL Camera more often.

 

I Wasn’t Prepared…

October 28, 2013 by HappyGoStuckey 16 Comments

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Last night I returned from one of the most amazing weekends of my entire life. I’m definitely still processing all I learned and I’m sure it will take days before I can put into words all that God taught me there.

After the events of the last few weeks, I was prepared for God to speak to my heart in a big way. The spiritual attacks on our family ranged from mildly frustrating to nearly debilitating. There was the sickness with head colds that rounded our family and then the revolting stomach bug that landed our littlest in the hospital over night (out of town!)  and then temporarily leveled the rest of us just days before I was to leave for Allume. Not to mention the near final-blow of becoming a “no-income” family just four weeks ago. Throw in a couple appliances breaking down (again.) and I was 100% convinced that Satan was waging an all-out battle to get me to give up and stay home. Through it all, the message was quite clear that I should still go, so went I did. With the anticipation of learning the treasures He wanted to teach me. So I was prepared for something great. 

I was not, however, prepared for several other things.

I was not prepared for the lovely change in weather, rendering half my wardrobe useless. (YAY FOR FALL!!!)

I was not prepared to be loved on again and again by the organizers, sponsors and speakers of Allume. I had heard of the amazing SWAG– but oh. my. word! Here’s a photo of SOME of the books and lovely gifts we received. Blessed!

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Whoa! Thank YOU!

I was not prepared to start making real connections twenty minutes after I arrived. The first person I met was a member of Allume staff who is right now, in the midst of waiting on her 2 adopted daughters to come home from across the world. While working registration together, she shared a bit about how they had been waiting about twice as long as the normal timeframe. I immediately became connected with this mama in my heart, and have committed to pray that God would MOVE MOUNTAINS if needed, and get these sweet girls home by Christmas. Will you please take a minute and pray for them as well? Her name is Christin and you can read a bit of their story by clicking on the link above.

I was not prepared for the friendships! ( I know.) During the Newbie Meet-up Mingle, I seriously wanted to run, not walk, back to my hotel room and watch some HGTV out of denial that anything called a MINGLE was going on and I was supposed to be a part of it. But a few minutes in, I started talking to Amanda, (who frankly had the same blogger-in-the-headlights look) and we found out how small the world really is. So many writers, bloggers, women with stunning hearts and unique spheres of influence– and I was blessed to meet many of them!

I was not prepared for the QUALITY of the Allume Conference. I was completely unaware that this was only the 4th year running, and could not tell from the attention to detail, the beauty of the decor, and the caliber of each speaker! I was 100% blown away and am so thankful to have had a part.

I went to Allume as a “Mom who happens to have a blog.” But I left Allume as a Woman who is confident that God has given her a passion for writing for a reason. I went hoping to become a better writer, but I left as someone who is not concerned with being “good enough” but is focused on being “available.”  I am even more convinced of who He has made me and I’m utterly grateful to be able to worship Him in this way. I now understand why I feel most relaxed and content when I am writing. Writing is a very personal form of worship for me and my desire is that it would ALWAYS make great the name of God. My hope is that I will continue to live in what I believe is an aspect of His calling for me. 

I was NOT PREPARED to leave my fears, inadequacies, comparisons, and concerns in Greenville, South Carolina. But God is faithful and He reminded me that He is not the author of fear or confusion and that He has placed me right where I am for a time and a purpose!

I’m not here because I’m there…

October 25, 2013 by HappyGoStuckey Leave a Comment

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Today, I’m not here because I’m in Greenville, SC for my very first blogging/writing conference.

I felt the move to go about 5 1/2 months ago and we prayed about it and both felt it was a “go!”

And I’m amazed now at God’s timing.

After the last month, it’s an amazing blessing to get to have a little (paid for!!) getaway. So here we go!!!

Now for the somewhat scary part. I really don’t KNOW a single person. Except for my beloved fellow newbies, (who I will try to recognize by their facebook picture and try not to call them by their full facebook name.) I always think that’s so funny. Sometimes I think of people in terms of their facebook “name” because that’s what is on my contact list.

But regardless of the fact that I’m a total newbie, I know that God has provided and prepared this before me, and I am excited to see how He shows up there! Basically, the entire conference is made up of bunch of bloggers & writers who desire to see God glorified in their work and wish to learn and grow in the area of writing.

I could not be more excited. Until someone (who got there early) posted a picture of our SWAG bag on Instagram. HELLO, FREE BOOKS!!!!!

But, can I humbly ask for your prayers? In a room of 400 people I do not know, I tend to be the girl who sticks to herself.

I know, shocking. But really, I do! I would covet your prayers in the following areas:

** Peace.

** Safety in Traveling and Safety for those I leave behind.

** A spirit of calmness.

** the ability to see outside of my own inadequacies and look for someone who needs a friend.

** and most of all, that God would be glorified in every aspect of both the conference and in my heart while there.

Well, that’s all!

I’m off to drop the last few things in my suitcase and head out! I’m armed with my favorite cardigans, my trusty Target boots (which consequently may not make it through this fall, sad!) and a miniature bottle of SCOPE Mouthwash, mainly because I dreamed I got into an elevator and it was just me and Ann Voskamp. Apparently I had just eaten a lot of onions, because she handed me a mint. Ouch. (I know she is totally more gracious than that– In don’t know why I dreamed that!!)

 When you read this tomorrow, I will already be partially through the second day.

Thank you for your support and thank you for your prayers– I appreciate you SO!

Photo Dump

October 23, 2013 by HappyGoStuckey Leave a Comment

I feel like it should be called something other than “Photo Dump” but I guess “Photo Deposit” doesn’t really make sense either.

Here are the High’s and Low’s of the last couple weeks, photographically speaking.

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Quick Stop at the Outlet Mall on the way to my Parent’s house…. In search of Jeans and socks for the littles– Success!!
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Our view from the driveway–

 So nice to have a home away from HOME! This time, we MADE ourselves take time to enjoy the lovely weather from that gazebo– so refreshing.

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Speaking of refreshing, one morning Lance and I got up to go for a walk and my dad mentioned a park right around the corner– I could not believe my eyes when we saw it! It was very similar to a larger park in Wake Forest we used to love! We had a great little walk– aside from almost getting a parking ticket, (we were OUT in the country, so we parked on the side of the road early in the morning– unfortunately a police officer thought our car might be stolen (only in Jacksonville!) and was about to ticket us until another nice man said we had just gone for a walk! ) HA!

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Another unexpected gem we discovered was the Farmer’s Market.

I always thought it was kind of a joke and had never been but APPARENTLY, my dad goes there all the time so Lance convinced me to go check it out and it was so nice!  *I stand corrected*

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Sorry for the grainy photo, but we had a little double date night with some dear family friends which involved amazing food, sleeping in a tad and then more amazing food– coupled with catching up and a lot of laughter. We were so renewed by our visit, but then we always are. We’re trying to nag them into coming up this way one weekend. (Hint Hint.)

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This quote was on their fridge… And of course I had to take a picture to remind myself.

Amen!

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The next night we had another dinner night with some very close friends, we happen to have kids just four months apart, (the mom and I have been best friends for life and we are only 4 month apart too!) Our second children are only 6 weeks apart– so we have perfectly planned play-dates. Don’t you love the fake smiles on these two? Buddies.

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But here’s what happened when we tried to get all four kids. HAHA!!! The minute Abby saw her friend making a break for it, she wiggled out of Lucy’s arms too.

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Annnnd, HERE’S where we TRIED to leave on Tuesday. Abby was really happy, regardless of how she felt. But then things went a little down hill.

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The next morning, I found myself sitting enjoying THIS while Reading the book below. My mom bought it for me. I think it’s quite applicable to our stage (or anyones!!) of life, don’t you? It’s really good. I LOVE Priscilla Shirer.

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Later that day, smiles were hard to come by for Miss Abby.
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And then THIS happened. So sad.

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Here she is sleeping in my lap in the ER room. It just broke my heart to see her so very sick.

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“I Seepy!”

By that night, she was doing so much better and when I tucked her in her cozy little bed, (despite being a little tangled with cables and cords from an IV, and 3 monitor leads.) She smiled a little and said, “Mommy, I seepy.” Which of course, melted my heart completely because naturally she WOULD be very sleepy, but she had never said that before. It’s about a new word every day with this little one. Unfortunately, she also learned “OWIE.” in the hospital. Sad.

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Daddy made the five hour drive for the second time in two days to come be with us in the hospital.

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And then on Friday, we FINALLY headed back home and made it safe and sound!

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Sporting our Fall shoes and dresses for a slightly chilly Sunday Morning.

Home Sweet Home!

Catching Up (The biggest Reset Monday EVER!)

October 21, 2013 by HappyGoStuckey Leave a Comment

So before Lucy started school, Mondays were also referred to as “Reset Mondays” around here. The day to catch up on everything that fell by the wayside over the weekend while we were enjoying our family time together. A good day to just catch our breath and prepare for the week.

After last week, do we ever need to press the reset button around here!!!! Quick recap: After my post on Wednesday morning, Abby woke up from a little nap VERY SICK. I hesitate to use the word “lethargic” but she was as close as I have ever seen her. She was only wanting to sleep, had stopped wetting diapers (uh-oh) and was completely refusing to drink. (Second- big uh-oh.) I called my pediatrician, but thankfully while waiting on a call back, my mom held her for a few minutes and (expert retired medical professional that she is) immediately noticed her increased heart rate and fast breathing. We hightailed it to the ER in town and they confirmed that she was dangerously dehydrated. After a few tests, they determined she needed to stay overnight and once she got some fluids and rest, she began to bounce back a little. As soon as Daddy arrived back in town with us, she perked up a little and by the next day, I was fighting the bug myself while she was trying to climb her own IV pole!! Those little ones get sick VERY quickly. Much quicker than I realized. Thankfully, she also bounced back with the right medical care.. and by God’s grace. I’m so thankful she is okay and that my God-given mommy-instinct (coupled with my own mother’s advice) told us to get her some help, QUICK.

So after battling the bug myself (as did Lucy) we finally did make it home on Friday night. All four of us. With zero incidents along the way. We even stopped over in St. Simons Island for a little family fun for a couple hours, which we all needed!

Saturday we chilled, ran errands and enjoyed being home. Those kids of ours destroyed their playroom in record time. I guess being away from one’s toys will do that.

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Today, I find myself staring down a very short week. I’m headed to a conference later this week so I have a TON to do. I’ll hopefully share more about this conference later this week, but it’s the type of thing I had to be convinced to sign up for five months ago and I am certain I would have been stressing about it if we hadn’t been so busy dealing with, you know, LIFE.

So today is a mix of carline, errands, LAUNDRY, finishing prep for closing out our ladies Bible Study tomorrow night, cleaning, coffee, packing, blah blah blah. But I have not forgotten!!!!

Time to announce the winner of the book giveaway!!!!

Thank you all for participating. I love doing book giveaways and I’m hoping to have another after this weekend–stay tuned!!!!

The winner of the “A Little Salty to Cut the Sweet” book by Sophie Hudson is:

Ashleigh Chafton!!!! 

Congrats Ashleigh!!!! You will enjoy this book. Send me an email with your address and I’ll drop it in the mail for you!

Wednesday Miscellany

October 16, 2013 by HappyGoStuckey Leave a Comment

Because of the recent turn of crazy events this week, I’m postponing drawing the winner for the book giveaway until Monday– so if you haven’t yet entered, go here and do so:  https://happygostuckey.com/2013/10/02/dotmom-part-two-and-a-book-giveaway/

So last Thursday, we packed up the family truckster (aka Suzy the Equinox) and headed to Florida to visit our family down there. It was initially planned just as a way to get out of town for a few days and relax with family, but my entire family ended up being in town so were able to visit with everyone.  Lance hasn’t been able to get a lot of time off from work to travel– and suddenly that was no longer an issue. (LEMONADE!!) So we made the trip down there and spent a wonderful few days catching up with family. And by “catching up” I mean, laughing hysterically and eating every kind of grilled meat my Dad produced from his grill. I love my family. Whenever we are all together things are loud, crazy and wonderful. The time together was just what we all needed.

HOWEVER. The morning we were planning to leave, at about 4am, I heard a sound that no mother ever wants to hear. A sound that chills one to the bone and brings with it the fresh horror of waiting for the next time the sound occurs. It is the sound, of vomit. Poor Abby became sick and proceeded to throw up SEVERAL more times. Once it seemed the worst was over, we loaded up the car, said our goodbyes and drove away. Well, we got as far as the gas station before IT happened again. Heading back to my parents house to get her cleaned up revealed that what seemed a brief hiatus in the illness was just that and she was NOT better. Certainly not better enough to travel five hours. Unfortunately, Lance had a few appointments he couldn’t miss back home so he had to leave us here and go on back. So, here I sit in my parents home, praying both that she is over the worst and that Lucy will not succumb to the wiles of the dreaded stomach bug. Wait, do I sound dramatic? Just a tad? Oh. Everyone hates for their little ones to be sick. But I’m not sure there is much worse than stomach bugs. Except maybe head lice. Yep. that mite be lousy. Ha! Sorry, my sleep has been a bit limited, therefore the puns are more plentiful and less funny.

I noticed something about being “home” this weekend. You’re never too old to be a kid in your parent’s house. I realized that as I observed each one of my brothers enter the house and immediately check the cookie jar. Luckily, my girls had not yet cleaned out all the Oreos but Abby sure was working on it, especially once she learned to say, “Oreo?” and no one could resist her charms. Seriously though. At one point, most of the grand kids were sitting around watching the cartoon Robin Hood and most of my siblings were walking around whistling or humming the songs from the movie which we must have watched a million times as kids. There is something so cyclical and cathartic about that. It seems for just a moment, nothing has really changed and we are all just kids around the dinner table, except now there are more of us, and we are all parents ourselves. But our whole family, whether joined by birth, marriage or choice– we love each other.

And I’m thankful that you CAN always go home.

Especially when you need to stay a little longer to allow the maelstrom of puking to pass. Ha!  

Happy Wednesday!!!!

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The landscape outside your window TODAY can feel like it’s your landscape forever but it’s actually not.

If the view from where you stand looks rather bleak and not at all how you hoped, can I remind you to look up? 

These trees in my own backyard, captured this morning, last March, and last August, will continue changing in their own rhythmic way whether I’m watching them or not. There’s a comfort in that for me today— and perhaps for you.

Whatever looks slow and unmoving, with change almost too gradual to detect— is still very much in a pattern of forward transformation.

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